Other than infidelity, abuse or addiction what was the last straw that convinced you to finally divorce? Also how long did you stay married?

@TexChik ding ding. Smart.

@TexChik exactly what I’m experiencing. Ships passing in the night, no connection, no intimacy 😔

@brian29715 I am so sorry. And there is no way to rekindle?

@TexChik I’ve tried, suggested counseling, asked what I can do, and she’s just not interested.

I honestly feel she’s more interested in the lifestyle than she is with me.

@brian29715 I am sorry. It might be time to consult with a divorce attorney just to see what is in front of you. The information you need to collect, and get your questions answered. You basically have 3 options if she is not interested. First you can just keep going as you are with no hope of love or passion. Or you could find your passion outside of your marriage (that's really not the best but its the most common choice) , or you pull the pin and start over. Most people pull the pin after the have found passion outside of their marriage and now have someone that loves them.

@TexChik thank you for the thoughts and well laid out options. Goes without saying, but there is no easy choice.

@brian29715 about my 3rd year out of school I had to start working with family law. My bosses felt like I needed to see it all before settling into what I wanted to do. What I told you is what I deduced from 3 years of family law.