I Am Married

I've been married for about a year, but I'm still struggling with knowing how to be. I've been very reclusive because I don't know.

Before I got married I was a very sexually open person, but that doesn't meld well into being a happily married woman. Moving to be with my husband, I'm in a new city in a new state. I have a blank slate and can really change the person perceive me as, but I don't know who I want that to be and I don't know essentially who I should be.

I'm a little lost and confused. I'm very happy with my husband, but currently I don't have any friends where I live and occasionally it's lonely. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Beth88 · 51-55, F

Be yourself. Don't worry about becoming a certain someone. Friends will come in time. Once you become comfortable and confident in yourself your personality will magnify others.

Thegreateast · 31-35, M

A hobby is what u need... And find friends through the hobby..

Since u said sexually open was a description of urself... u have to find social outlets in other ways...make friends based on that

BiasForAction · M

Why not just join some clubs/organizations with interests you share?

Shadowpaws · F

Part of the problem is I don't know what parts of my past I want to bring forward with me. I've had a speckled past and this is my chance to blend in, but I'm also not ashamed of my past even with the blemishes, so I'm left confused on what to do.

Picklebobble · 56-60, M

Don't change who you were.
That's the gal he fell in love with !
New places always bring new challenges.

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