What exactly made you realize you had married the wrong person? Was there one definite event or turning point there was no going back from?

@uncalled4 Og gosh! Thats awful. :(

@Tomorrow Hey, I got the message. She returned after a few weeks, but the damage was done. Just the idea that she vacated the house was a mortal wound. But as a great songwriter said, "If that's the way you want it, then that's the way I want it more".

@uncalled4 It would be difficult to miss that message! But seems like you've gained perspective and somewhat made a certain peace with it now.