I wouldn't date a woman I met on a dating site because from my experience using them, women on there love the attention they get from hundreds and

Even thousands of men. A lot of women on those dating sites don't wanna leave, even when they meet someone they like.

When I used to use dating sites, I noticed that it's mostly used by women for attention. Even a lot of married women and married men use them.

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CharlieZ · 70-79, M

Same can be said about men.

But true, for women and men, the need for attention from more than one is a signature of emotional inmaturity (while is not when from only one).
And it make take apparently contradictory forms and still be deeply the same.

Magenta · F

@CharlieZ Indeed. Emotional immaturity mixed with an ego that needs constant stroking.

CharlieZ · 70-79, M

@Magenta Yup.
Even so, as the idea that "value comes from within" is no more than a a frivolous mantra, I see as quite mature to seek and get attention from a partner.
Emotional exhibitionism to the "opposite" gender (no matter the "harmless" way it´s expresed) just says that someone may not be ready for a relationship, and probably never will.