Love died. What's next.

I've been married for years. Had kids all whats generally expected. I was content.
I ended up in hospital and since I came home it seems my marriage is in need of hospitalisation.
She barely talks to me and closeness is gone. My wife decided that I am not worthy of being loved or appreciated.
I'm trapped in a hell. I think was it all worth it? If the shoe was on her foot she would be very hurt and feel abandoned and suddenly hated. I did nothing to deserve that. I wish I could change things but how...
she barely speaks to me and doesn't listen. I feel so unhappy and alone.

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BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

You can try and talk to her. If she will, let her talk and get out what she needs to if willing to try and fix things. Be prepared it might not change anything as her mind might already be made up.

The reality is our laws basically encourage a woman who is unhappy to leave rather than own their part in trying to fix things. Between separation of assets, alimony and child support, if you are the higher earner by very much .. a divorce is like a lottery ticket for her.

Get your financial house in order and don"t take on any new major purchases. Good things regardless, critical if this leads to ending the marriage.