I Am Married But Lonely

When you get to this point after years and years of feeling this way, I think it's time to view things differently. I am filled with regret choosing him and staying. I should have listened to my head a long time ago. Is it too late for me? Do I care enough about myself to fight for myself? Do I deserve more? I miss what I had with "him." It was too long ago. I'm sooo dreadfully bored with my life! I NEED OUT!

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brianluck44 · 51-55, M

You have to decide what is best for you. No one can do that for you

airzzm · 41-45, F

You're absolutely right. But it's hard to make different choices when everything else in your life takes control (like your job). I don't have balance in my life right now. :-(

brianluck44 · 51-55, M

Take it one step at a time, one day at a time. Find balance. Work on yourself. When you are ready then you make the big decision about staying or leaving but first you have to fix you. @airzzm:

airzzm · 41-45, F

You're absolutely right. I've lost connection with myself and I'm very unbalanced. There are so many different things I need to work on, but I can only make incremental changes at a time. I just need something in my life to help me fight. I just can't find that reason why yet though.

brianluck44 · 51-55, M

If you need someone to talk to then I'd be happy to talk whether we talk here, text, email or whatever. You seem to need a support group to help you and I am offering. It's up to you @airzzm:

airzzm · 41-45, F

Thanks Brian. I might just take you up on that offer. I'm in need of friends and a support system at the moment...

brianluck44 · 51-55, M

Message me if you decide you are interested @airzzm: