I Am Married But Lonely

Feeling lonely while in a relationship is the worst kind of lonely

You find contentment somehow or get out.

I don’t manage it well. It’s a horrible way to live.

thats not a good marriage then. Have you talked about the fact that your lonely with your partner? you only have two options, talk about it get it solved either with divorce or working on marriage, or get more friends and hobbies to avoid being lonely.

Ive never felt lonely or bored in my life. ...I got divorced for less than that.

I have learned to appreciate the ways we are able to connect. They aren't intimate, but they are genuine and it helps me realize that I like the person I'm married to. Yes, I go through rough periods (like now) where the lack of intimacy is difficult. But I wait until I'm able to refocus on the happy parts of our relationship. It mostly works for me.

Let me know if you find out.

I developed a circle of friends with similar interests and values.
This took a lot of time and effort but it now works and flows smoothly.
I also focus on my work, goals and interests.