I Am Married But Lonely

Today is my anniversary. We've been having some issues lately anyway, but I've been trying to get him to work it out. Anyway, I come downstairs, post a picture of us at our wedding and a nice sentiment on Facebook and go to say Happy Anniversary to him. He's all pissed off from work last night, and I get a sigh and grumbled, "Happy Anniversary". Wouldn't look at me, no smile, no kiss...nothing.

So, I come back here to my computer and just start crying. Then he sees me crying and sighs again, "What's wrong? You look angry." I didn't know how to respond. Isn't it obvious considering what JUST happened? I finally said, "Why does it seem like this is just another day to you?" Now he's walking past me grumbling, "It's not just another day."

Umm..really? I'm so frustrated and so drained. I'm just so done.

SStarfish ·

The anniversary is only as special as the marriage.. Don't expect your anniversary to be nice if your relations are strained.. It's "your" or you really should be saying "our" (yours and his) anniversary.. Be nice to him.. Act nice to him.. Don't expect him to be nice and act like everything is ok when it's not.. Don't play a victim.. It works both way..