Why are men so unforgiving, yet when a man cheats, most women will forgive the man and...

CloudDweller · 22-25, M

"most women will forgive the man and continue the marriage" well your statement sounds foolish and unreal. Every individual is a world of their own, and your very own experiences differ from those of others. You can't judge when someone feels disappointed and betrayed.

4meAndyou · F

I totally GET it. I had two husbands cheat. I walked in on them unexpectedly both times...and I walked out and filed for divorce both times.

When you THINK you're married...and you EXPECT fidelity in the sanctity of your marriage...when you are in LOVE...then your spouse cheats on you... it's like being stabbed in the heart with a knife dipped in poison. If you don't die immediately, the poison works on you...killing you slowly...you have been betrayed. I had to cut all ties and all contact immediately. My cheating husbands were dead to me.

ronisme1 · 70-79, M

I forgave my 1st wife the first time but not the 2nd, 3rd, 13th.

jim2439 · 61-69, M

i forgave my wife many times as she kept it up for years but she had the hardest time saying im sorry and telling me the details of her affairs

Amish · 22-25, M

Well, women need to get more smarter :)

Ben1000 · 41-45, M

I respect the guy here as he’s sticking to his guns, trust was broken he was unhappy and left shows dignity.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Millions of men have forgiven. The same for millions of women.

kittee

i think in a relationship therei smore at stake for women, house, children,sex isnt so important, but for some men, they see their wife just a ssomeone to have sex with,

mazedona · 22-25, F

This is not usually the case; in fact, many countries have restrictive laws regarding marriage, and these laws tend to fall more heavily on husbands than wives, contrary to popular belief. There is a lot of misin . formation

AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M

Men, women -whoever cheats deserves a little pain.

Justafantasy · M

Why can't people forgive politicians when they lie? Why don't banks leave the vault open at night?

Ramon67 · 61-69, M

I forgave my ex wife for the first affair . But , not for the other 6 . We got divorced after I walked in on her and guy number 7 in out bedroom . We haven’t talked since the divorce in 2004 .

GoFish ·

because they don't have to.. most women are dependent on their man hence why they stay tho there are exceptions.. if you're working yourself to the bone for someone they have to be worth it somehow

Bleak · 36-40, F

Cheating is not a small mistake. It is a profound betrayal of trust, and not everyone should be expected to forgive it.

Northwest · M

Once trust is broken, there is telling how it will turn out.

kittee

hes an aboslute idjiut

Lostpoet · M

I don't think women forgive unless you have something they won't.

Fawma123 · 51-55, M

Ego