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WhateverWorks · 36-40
I cheated once when I was 19-ish. I was in an abusive relationship (first real relationship). Eventually I figured out how to leave. Never allowed myself to be trapped like that again.
I’ve never been the side piece intentionally though. I was 21-ish I did have a guy claim he was in an open relationship, which turned out to be another life lesson for me to always confirm with the other person before anything happens. I felt really bad when she came to me obviously upset. My actual takeaway from that was resounding ‘No thank you’ to all future non-monogamy scenarios lol…
I’ve never been the side piece intentionally though. I was 21-ish I did have a guy claim he was in an open relationship, which turned out to be another life lesson for me to always confirm with the other person before anything happens. I felt really bad when she came to me obviously upset. My actual takeaway from that was resounding ‘No thank you’ to all future non-monogamy scenarios lol…