I Live In a Sexless Marriage

My wife and I finally had a talk about my feelings for her, which are that I care her as a person,last Thursday. I confided in my daughter whose visiting, who told my wife. Which just confirmed what she already knew. It has gone surprisingly well so far. I'm still staying because of the grandchild we are raising. My wife's only request is that I be discreet and move out if I start f###ing someone. I hope y'all don't mind but I felt a need to share this. Is it wrong for me to be sad but happy at the same time?

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bamaboylick · 61-69, M

@aradia, yes, mixed emotions but not feelings. I feel for you. I'm not in the same situation as you but similar in that to this day she will not admit any of her own faults. Over the years I've owned my own short comings and worked to correct them. I care for her and didn't want to hurt her but I was by not being honest. Even though over these last year's she had to see that my feelings for her were gone.