How do you define a sexless marriage?

Is it no sex at all? Or how much sex is normal and how much is too little?

My wife seems to have a very low sex drive while Mine’s quite high. We have sex once every month and half maybe if im lucky. Am I in a sexless marriage?

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laurieluvsit · 31-35, F

In general, when it come to sex, I define two categories ...those who are of a 'High Sexual Nature' and those who 'Are Not'.

It is something you are born with, or without, and is a part of the DNA, so is difficult to impossible to alter in either case.

Sex and finances are the #1 and #2 reasons for failed marriages.

There are psychological tests that can be taken prior to marriage that are very precise in determining 'Compatibility', but who ever takes, or even knows about, those? ...right?

I guess that is why God put into the DNA of some that are of a high sexual nature the instincts of masturbation.

Best wishes is about all that can be hoped for.

As an optimist, I am sorry I don't have better news :(

GinPanda · 26-30, F

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