Starting to wonder what’s wrong with me

My wife and I have been together for nearly five years and married for two. Prior to marriage we tried to wait for marriage but weren’t always successful. However once we got married the sex stopped. We didn’t even have sex on our wedding night. I have continued to try and get met with her laughter or rejection. I don’t know how I could stand in front of her like that and get nothing. Tonight I wore her favorite color on me wore her favorite scents on me and was very flirty told her my boxer briefs matched my shirt for her too…… she went to sleep at 8:30 tonight. Gotta be something wrong with me

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CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M

I had friends in a similar situation to you, he wanted to wait until marriage (she didn’t but did) and a few times they weren’t successful. After the marriage their sex life wasn’t really going anywhere largely because he didn’t know how to touch her and never took the time to talk about it

Hoodski · 36-40, M

@CultOfPersonality I try to but she just has no interest

CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M

@Hoodski i truly am sorry you’re going through this. Have you suggested couples counciling??

Hoodski · 36-40, M

@CultOfPersonality yeah we have talked about it but she just says she’s not interested in sex and blames menopause and her health

CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M

@Hoodski that’s a possibility tbf, do you believe her??

Hoodski · 36-40, M

@CultOfPersonality now yes but not for two whole years