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Starting to wonder what’s wrong with me

My wife and I have been together for nearly five years and married for two. Prior to marriage we tried to wait for marriage but weren’t always successful. However once we got married the sex stopped. We didn’t even have sex on our wedding night. I have continued to try and get met with her laughter or rejection. I don’t know how I could stand in front of her like that and get nothing. Tonight I wore her favorite color on me wore her favorite scents on me and was very flirty told her my boxer briefs matched my shirt for her too…… she went to sleep at 8:30 tonight. Gotta be something wrong with me
Hoodski
36-40, M
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OlderSometimesWiser · F
Sounds like things haven’t changed much since you posted something similar a year ago. If you’ve had countless conversations but nothing changes, if she won’t consider couples counseling, you might consider individual counseling and asking yourself how much of your life you’re gonna waste on a dead end street.
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CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M
I had friends in a similar situation to you, he wanted to wait until marriage (she didn’t but did) and a few times they weren’t successful. After the marriage their sex life wasn’t really going anywhere largely because he didn’t know how to touch her and never took the time to talk about it
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Hoodski · 36-40, M
@CultOfPersonality yeah we have talked about it but she just says she’s not interested in sex and blames menopause and her health
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CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M
@Hoodski that’s a possibility tbf, do you believe her??
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Hoodski · 36-40, M
@CultOfPersonality now yes but not for two whole years
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CaliCanadianAngela · 41-45, F
That’s not a marriage hun, it’s a roommate. If she won’t do counseling then get out of there, live your best life without her.
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Hoodski · 36-40, M
@CaliCanadianAngela trying so hard to fight for this can’t help but think it’s me
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JamesBugman
@Hoodski Nah, nothing to do with you. She got you to commit, now she owns half of everything you own. She did what she set out to do. Find someone else.
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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
It's true that some people aren't into sex, they don't need it. I think it's something that should be talked about before marriage..somehow...ya know. Be on the same page and all.
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Bumbles · 56-60, M
Sorry, man. You have a tough situation to face. You can divorce now or later, but you will get divorced.
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DancingStarGoddess ·
That's extremely strange. Time to have a serious talk I think 🤔
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DancingStarGoddess ·
@Hoodski Yeah, at that point perhaps it's then time to maybe talk about a possible amicable split. She doesn't sound invested and it frankly sounds like it's doing a number on you emotionally.
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Hoodski · 36-40, M
@DancingStarGoddess it really is. I have contemplated many things
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DancingStarGoddess ·
@Hoodski I understand
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Hoodski · 36-40, M
@helenoftroy2000 I sure hope not
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Threepio
No sex = no kids right.

If so, then it is time to lawyer up and walk away dude.

Rejection is one thing..... her laughing at you is another... It is a sign of blatant disrespect.
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SomeMichGuy · M
That's awful.

Get it annulled or quickie divorce.
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come2gether · 46-50, M
My fiance already knows, we have lots of sex, or there won't be a wedding
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come2gether · 46-50, M
Time to get a side piece
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hunkalove · 70-79, M
Sure sounds like it.
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