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Does marriage make sense ?

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It's just a commitment. You can always break up.
Blessica · 22-25, F
@Blessica Well people grow and change.
Blessica · 22-25, F
@Spoiledbrat @RSquared Does marriages really work ?
RSquared · 61-69, M
@Blessica They can. Or they can grow apart. It depends on the people involved. There is no hard and fast rule.
Blessica · 22-25, F
@RSquared Based on all the facts, May be in North America, Marriages work but unfortunately in South American countries its just a Gamble which you play ⛵
RSquared · 61-69, M
@Blessica And where are you getting these facts? What is your source?
@Blessica In Brazil it's serial monogamy for women. They won't divorce one man until they have another.

Yes, Soul Mates can happen, depending on a few factors.

1) Highly compatible personality types.

2) Survived a trauma together.

3) Willing to survive a trauma again together.

You can engineer 1.
You shouldn't engineer 2.
3 you should both be quite open to in advance.

That's the formula.
Blessica · 22-25, F
@Dignaga So many Conditions
@Blessica Books have been written on this. The Philosopher Swedenborg founded a religion based on the idea. A movie was based off it about Soul Mates with Robin Williams as a actor:

[media=https://youtu.be/KMvYoDLpTkU]

I myself was targeted by a brazilian woman living in Chicago a decade ago by the serial monogamy scheme from a website, we started off as friends and then she revealed her husband was terrible, and then she wanted to leave him, and then she had two kids, and she hated the winters and being stuck indoors all winter long and all her plants outside died.... and I was considering it thinking she was being abused.... I always tell women who are physically abused to leave.... and I found out the terrible thing about him was a drinking problem and a gun collecting hobby. She couldn't understand why he had so many guns, but knew of both issues prior to marrying him. (Men collecting guns is common, and liberal women often complain about it in the US, it is a trope).

So I realized all she was, was a slow motion wrecking ball moving in and out of men's lives. She did end up divorcing him, and took her two kids down to Sao Paulo, abandoning him. He made over $300,000 a year and wasn't abusive, but lost his kids because she took off. If she didn't target me it would of been someone else.

And I was seriously thinking of moving down with her and planting coffee and having a pet monkey. Laws forbid a indoor monkey but if it lives outside not a issue.

So I avoid serial monogamist now. It's a latin america thing, but Brazil is most notorious for it. The women there just exist to ruin men's lives, not no reason, no fault to the men.
I think it does for some people. Some people want companionship. It's hard but worth it. @Blessica