People vanish from your life after marriage

@Lostpoet Needs?

@bushi2020 Yeah, if they need to get drunk then it is fine to go out to the bar. If they need to be social then it's ok to go your parents or hang out with friends, but if they don't want to do that stuff then you better not either or it is going to turn into a fight

@Lostpoet Not everyone is a substance abuser.

@RedBaron I don't drink and it doesn't have to be alcohol.

@Lostpoet Obviously

@Lostpoet This describes well my 2nd wife and biggest mistake of my life. The first? We kept and got along with each other's friends. A mostly peaceful mutual parting.

@Lostpoet that goes both ways. Men want you to go out with him and his friends. But if he wants to party with other women he finds an excuse to do so that doesnt involve you. But he doesnt want you to hang out with male friends alone.

@Lostpoet wtf?

@lostlissa 😒I guess we could just hangout?

@Lostpoet I'm going to steer myself away from this - but you are going to face the wrath of a woman with this.

@Lostpoet you can find someone else to hang out with. I pass.

@Lostpoet Are you asking me or telling me?