How do you define marriage in these days ??

Marriage is an intimate relationship between two people who love one another and vow to try their utmost to love one another til death. It is individual between a man and a woman. Others are called unions. One always hopes to be married until death. Doesn't always work out that way. It takes commitment, loyalty, strength, open communication, honesty, a great sense of humour, etc. I believe in marriage. Many get divorced and let themselves be closed to the option of finding love again. That is sad to give someone that power.

I don't define it. Defining it is what causes the problems because we try to fit people in boxes they may not fit into.

Marriage needs to be a decision between 2 (or more, if that is what suits them) parties on how they commit to each other and what the rules of their conduct need to be.

It's a legal contract x religious bs = destruction of self.

I'm sure some people are happily married. And I'm sure it's because some of them believe in the hype.

Ahhh yes … 😑