What would you do if you had been married for years and had not consummated the marriage? Poll - Total Votes: 5wait patientlycheatdivorce themShow ResultsYou can only vote on one answer. I came across a video on YouTube with this topic.A couple more came up after it.I'm guessing this is more common than we think.One reason was trauma.The person didn't go into detail as to whether or not the spouse knew of the trauma before the marriage.What would you do if you married a person that you loved, then never consummated the marriage? Post Comment Receive notifications Add a comment...