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Do you sometimes regret getting married?

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Starcrossed41-45, F
I don't let myself hold regrets, I try to look back at negative experiences and glean what I have learned from them.

That said, the first decade or so had some pretty dark times. There was emotional abuse, sexual coercion, financial abuse, and physical intimidation bordering contact abuse. I was too codependent to leave and he was too narcissistic to let me go.

A [u][b]LOT[/u][/b] of therapy, soul searching and hard conversations have occurred since and things are a bit better but there's still some brokenness.
HumanEarth56-60, M
No, Not even the first wife, who cheated on me and took illegal street drugs frequently. It's what I call attending the School of Hard Knocks. Certain lessons are best learned by experience alone.
exexec61-69, C
I have never regretted marrying Lynn. (I'm not asking her if she feels the same about me.)
LilPrincess41-45, F
I regret getting engaged and planning a wedding more than once.馃槖
LilPrincess41-45, F
@Hougal thank ya. I am rather used to bad things happening now
Hougal31-35, M
@LilPrincess I hope you will meet someone who will heal your heart from these bleeding
Hougal31-35, M
@LilPrincess Don't give up!
Jeephikelove46-50, F
Yes to that POS, but I鈥檇 do it again with the right person.
JimboSaturn51-55, M
Not at all.
Fertilization36-40, F
fanuc201351-55, F
Never!!!
Roundandroundwego61-69
Absolutely. I should have tried to be way more authentic - I had no business fooling in that.
Primnproper56-60, F
No, I don鈥檛 do regrets but I鈥檇 never marry again.
JimboSaturn51-55, M
@Primnproper I don't think I would bother if I was single again.
Primnproper56-60, F
@JimboSaturn no i definitely wouldn't now at my age.
Not at all, it was a growing experience for both of us
Melissa50136-40, F
Yeah both times. Im better off single.
sugarpie26-30, F
I wanna get married tho 馃槱
scooogy31-35, MVIP
That's why I don't
I regret the circumstances of the speed of our marriage, but wouldnt want to be married to anyone else.
Never. I just worry my wife considers it
LilnonamesF
i was never in that position and im glad馃槉
@Lilnonames Me too, marriage is a nightmare especially if you are not compatible 馃榿
LilnonamesF
@mindlessdrifter i BLOCKED him he got mad haha
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TheOthetAcc36-40, M
@mindlessdrifter How long has it been?
@TheOthetAcc married four years, divorced in 2003

 
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