Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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PunkRockSuperStar · 56-60, M

I'm afraid the bad news is that he isn't going to change. He can't change his personality any more than you can yours. There are people who couldn't live with themselves if they did something to hurt their partners, and there are people who just don't give a fuck. Your husband is one of the latter, and you should leave. It sounds to me like he's already wrecked your relationship. Don't give him the opportunity to make it worse.