Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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Hayley16 · F

Did he hook up or was it limited to online? Those are huge differences.

Bustywithbpd · 26-30, F

@Hayley16 he said it was only online but I don't believe him

Hayley16 · F

@Bustywithbpd are you or me or whoever is on this site doing anything different from what he said he was doing? Have you told him about this site and that you are talking to people about your relationship? The choice is simple. Either believe him and move on or if you no longer will ever be able to trust him, then leave. Or if it’s your house tell him to leave. I have guys hit me up all the time and discuss fantasies. We never hook up. Maybe with some of his fantasies he feels you will judge him so he is online with someone he will never meet. I don’t know you or him. If you love him, remind yourself why. If you don’t. Say goodbye. Don’t let people on here that you have no clue who they are dictate what you will do. Not even me.