Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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sunriselover · M

You said mostly online. That is not real.
You can never be sure of the perso. You are talking too.

But if in reality, that is different. If he has cheated on you in the real world, then he always will.
If it was a middle age fling, it does happen, men become aware of their mortality and do silly things. You should be able to steer him off that when it comes.
But this has happened so young. It bodes badly.