Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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lost213 · 46-50, M

I caught my wife cheating 9 years ago. I still don’t trust her. I’m still with her because I don’t want my kids to suffer through a divorce. Especially back then.

Bustywithbpd · 26-30, F

@lost213 how do you live with her?

lost213 · 46-50, M

@Bustywithbpd one day at a time. I still care about her. But now the love I have for her is like a love you have for a friend not a spouse. Hindsight being 20/20 I should have left her back then. I’m sure I would have found someone else.