Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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TexChik · F

Consult an attorney

Bustywithbpd · 26-30, F

@TexChik I don't have a job or money right now.

SW-User

@Bustywithbpd This puts you in a very weak position, but I think you are best out of it.

My mother was in a similar position, I pleaded for her to leave my father. I even caught him with someone once. I had no respect for him.

But worse at the beginning of my marriage, men used to pop round for a coffee when I was at work. Read into that what you like.