Will my husband really change after cheating multiple times?

I found out my husband of 2 years (together for 11 years) has cheated on me through out our relationship, engagement and marriage. Mostly with online women and onlyfans. After I found out, he said he's very sorry and he's going to change (he didn't tell me about any of it, I found it all out myself) he's showing me that he's changing but I don't trust him, should I believe him or should I leave????

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Blackie · 51-55, M

Do you take the time to be intimate with him? If your answer is no, then dont expect him to change if you aren't willing to making changes yourself. Men are very simple creatures dont over complicate things.

Bustywithbpd · 26-30, F

@Blackie yes, we have no problem with intimacy, we've always communicated about that

Blackie · 51-55, M

@Bustywithbpd well ok have you let yourself go? Meaning did you put on weight, are you less attentive to the home than you were before? All these things make a difference.

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Bleak · 36-40, F

@Blackie if she has put on weight after delivering a baby, then what’s the problem??

Blackie · 51-55, M

@Bleak no problem but unless that’s the case then let her state it. You’re not her.