What am I going to do? 🤦‍♂️

Everyone hates my hubby. Including his own brothers. I’ve tried to standby him, but I see the same things they do I just haven’t known him as long. I find myself in a role of therapist often. A mediator, a diagnoser, a counsellor …. We’ve done therapy - it’s been better, but he doesn’t wanna continue.

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SW-User

How long have you been married? Has it been a good marriage?

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

@SW-User 6 years. I’ve never been married before so idk if it’s “good” - we have a lot good times but it’s been kind of difficult for me bc it’s punctuated by a lot of stress and conflict. He seems happy. Says I’m a “perfect wife”. I really do my best. But of course this is one side of a two sided story….

I should also add that he helped some important aspects of my original family - which I prob couldn’t have done without him. But that came with a lot of stress and conflict too so now I am estranged from some family.