My boyfriend said he will marry me in 3 to 5 years. Is this a good or bad thing?😃

@easterniowegin he's higher

@kimberlyJay that makes sense. And that might be part of any hesitation on his part.
What are you doing to make yourself more attractive to him (not just "pretty" but attractive)?? That includes a lot more than just physical appearance.

@easterniowegin showing him I can cook and clean and great with kids😀

@kimberlyJay that's a good start! How are you in your interactions with him? Is he a good leader? Do you follow his lead? Will you bring peace to his world?

@easterniowegin I'm sorry, but this is ridiculous. It's like this relationship is transactional. "what are you doing to make yourself attractive???" why did he choose her to begin with if he didn't find her attractive? and you don't marry someone just because she can cook and take care of kids. You marry her because you want her to be your partner through thick and thin, your life companion, not a maid or a pretty piece of art to look at and sleep with