For the guys who are married or want to get married, are prenups ideal if things go down south?
I'd definitely sign up one. I wouldn't want a woman who would take half of what I own if a divorce happens.
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Ynotisay · M
I have a friend who's a pretty prominent divorce attorney with a specific focus on men's rights. He's gay, and not a woman-basher, but gets disgusted with the system.
He's told me that marriages with pre-nups last longer. I believe that. It's an adult decision that acknowledges reality. The problem is the pre-nup usually comes on the second marriage which means one partner, not always male, is paying big.
But he drove a point home to me that I won't forget. [b]In the eyes of the law marriage is a business contract[/b]. And that's 100% true. I can't think of one other contract that people would enter in to without some type of safety net. But it happens with marriage. He also said, "The person you marry is not the person you divorce." A lot of truth to that too.
He's told me that marriages with pre-nups last longer. I believe that. It's an adult decision that acknowledges reality. The problem is the pre-nup usually comes on the second marriage which means one partner, not always male, is paying big.
But he drove a point home to me that I won't forget. [b]In the eyes of the law marriage is a business contract[/b]. And that's 100% true. I can't think of one other contract that people would enter in to without some type of safety net. But it happens with marriage. He also said, "The person you marry is not the person you divorce." A lot of truth to that too.