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Am I stupid?

My husband lost his credit card and insisted I had to call and pretend to be him and request they send him a new one. It’s his account, and a while back he ordered a card for me too.

Now, I’ve never lost a credit card or had one stolen. I’ve never had any problems whatsoever and I didn’t even know our cards were the same until that day. I didn’t want to pretend to be him, but he got mad so I just did it to make him leave me alone.

I called, and it was obvious I wasn’t a man. The woman on the like was like, “this is _?”….”ok _” haha. Kind of like, “sure, if you say so”

I said the card was lost and a requested a new one. I mean, that’s what happened.

Soooooo, then my card got cancelled too and now we’re waiting on replacements. My husband keeps going on and on about how I can’t even use any common sense and I shouldn’t have told them it was lost. I should’ve just requested a new one. I know that now obviously, but I had no way of knowing they’d cancel mine because he lost his.

So, am I dumb as a box of rocks for not realizing this?

I’m just tired of hearing my husband tearing me down about it and it’s really got me feeling like I’m just stupid and incompetent.
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Neoerectus · M
He is a user it sounds.

Is he also an abuser?...
If so, leave while still young. It will only get worse.

Neighbor next door hung on for 35+ years before leaving. She is very slowly coming back to some sense of normality.