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What is the meaning of marriage to you? Does the concept have any significance?

What is the meaning of marriage to you? If you've not been married do you want to be or do you not care?

I haven't been married and see no drive/desire to be as to be married is a sham institution. The only example I have to go on is my own parents who never lived happily and divorced when I was 12. I've rejected the concept ever since. Just like smoking (since my mum was a chronic smoker for much of the time I was a kid).

I don't understand why women are so desirous of being proposed to (or in rare cases doing the proposing) and having the other person say 'yes'. I wonder how many relationships break up because the other person says 'no'. 8-)

I realise that marriage has two parallel meanings - the religious one and the basic common law contractural one - and some people subscribe to both while some only subscribe to one (generally the common law one ignoring or leaving out the religious aspect).

Whether either meaning has more weight (or any) is probably a very personal thing and one of the key areas any potential couple has to come to agreement on right from the start as that would set the colour/direction/angle/pitch/whatever of the way they want to build the foundation for their life going foward. Or end up like so called strict christian couples such as Bailey Mcpherson and her hubby (bmcpher on social media) - ewww so cringeworthy!
Ynotisay · M
I think the emotions and legalities of marriage are two different things. The emotional part is totally dependent on the individuals. The legality part? Not so much. At the end of the day marriage is a business contract. Our society is set up to financially reward legal unions. But that's also what gets a whole lot of people in trouble. You have to know what you're signing when you sign a contract. But because of the emotions, most don't even acknowledge it. I don't personally think marriage has anything to do with a happy, fulfilled relationship. But I do believe, as they say, the person you marry is not the person you divorce.
SusanInFlorida · 31-35, F
marriage is to remind boy spouses that the days of cheating and casual sex are officially over. and provide a stable environment for the children
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Neither have I ever been married, nor do I have any drive to become married.

But.. the way I see marriage is a vow bewteen two people to stay loyal to eachother. I see it just as religiously as I do lawfully. I really respect that
Like, I myself am poly, so...nah.

But even if I were to go with one, there's no real need for all that hoopla and other bullshit. Just a pair of silver rings, that's all. Sweet Mercy.
justanothername · 51-55, M
It’s the Union of hopefully a life long partnership.
I’m divorced once and happily remarried ❤️
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