If your S/O suggested marriage/ couple’s counseling would you go?

Yes, i want ro hear the counselor say he was an ass. Just kidding but yes I would go

Yes. I've had couple's counseling before. It's quite helpful and productive if both partners are serious about resolving their differences.

Tried that shit with my first wife. She and the counselor ganged up on me. I went twice before I decided, fuck this , and never went back.

Yes I would, we have been to like a group therapy thing for young age groups together before, it wasn’t just for relationships though, you could talk about anything.

I went

i went to marriage counseling even after she started not telling the truth. Sharing four children can be that way.

Sure if I was interested in things working out, but certain things you know very well that simply don't work

No.Waste of time and money.When I am done with a man that is it.Kicked him to the kerb.

Sure if there is free coffee. ☺️

I think couples counseling is always a good idea. If anything, couples should be giving it a go sooner to work on a developing good foundations rather than waiting until the relationship is hanging by a thread.

I do feel like if people have been together only a year or so and there’s already a lot of problems likely couples counseling would be a waste of time.

If they are suggesting it, whether or not they believe they were in the wrong, you should go. Sometimes we try and have conversations with our s/o and just want to hear what we want to hear. It’s the same thing if we’re talking to friends. Sometimes you just need an unbiased person to communicate with.

Not anymore as a couple, I would if we had a coparenting issue. He is a covert narcissist and abusive and used therapy as an opportunity to manipulate the truth and further abused me when we didnt have trauma informed professionals.

Yes I'd go

Yes

It would depend on where we are and what had just happened. Maybe if we were married or had known eachother for years, but if we were just a couple then no. I'd call it quits

I guess so. We're a unit and, maybe naively, our plans being partners for life......so.....

I wouldn't like to think of him unhappy....and I hope he feels the same for me...

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I’d go. If it meant improving the relationship then I’d go to counseling.

Absolutely would if I wanted to stay in that relationship.

Of course I’d go. It will all come out eventually.

SUSAN..... GOD WE AREN"T EVEN MARRIED!!!!!!!

Of course

Yep

Depends how much I value the relationship.