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Is anyone truly happy in a marriage?

Those lovey dovey messages on social media is such farce. If you love someone there's no need to display it to the world. I know of men who did that on facebook and insta when they were hitting on me at my workplace. I'm sure their wives had no idea what they did behind their backs.

Exceptions can be there. I was going to get married but it was called off. My sister has not been happy at all in her marriage and not too far from now they will be separated and eventually divorced.

This has a significant impact on kids. And i never wanted to destroy a kid's innocent mind when i knew i am not capable to handle a relationship if i ever experience infidelity and betrayal. Sure, there could be some honest men but i never found them when i used to date.

That's needle in a haystack.

I'm happy that i chose to remain single.
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StarLily · 51-55, F
Depends on the foundation marriage rests upon I think.

That person to grow old with. Honestly, I think they'll need to be my best friend. That loyal comradery that's always there... whether near or far, through the beautiful and ugly, the wise moments and stupid moments🤭. They don't weigh your strengths and weaknesses against each other... they just accept all of you, because they're cool with you like that.

Yep, that's the person I want to be sitting on the porch sipping coffee with when I'm 70 years old. My best friend... the one I've also been blessed to share the deepest moments of love and intimacy with.
Montanaman · M
@StarLily 🙋‍♀️💞🥰❤️🤗
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StarLily · 51-55, F
@SW-User So we need online best friends apps and not just dating apps.😆
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StarLily · 51-55, F
@SW-User I've never been on a dating app either. It seems like forcing a situation rather than letting it happen naturally.
Are you still friends with him?
StarLily · 51-55, F
@Montanaman Beautiful song.😌 Perfectly conveys my thought.💖