I Want My First Marriage To Be My Only Marriage

Marriage is a bad bad deal for men. Men if you are reading this do not marry. Its a legal business agreement not romance and flowers. When it goes bad it goes really bad. The courts are gender biased and you will get screwed. Alimony is the worst - being responsible for another human being is a bad bad deal.

If you do marry get a prenup and state you will not ever pay Alimony.

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MightySizeQueen · 36-40, F

It's bad if you make it bad...

ShadowSteel · M

@MightySizeQueen I agree it takes two people. But if one person goes bad, and the other goes good you are pulled down by the bad.

Generally for the biased family courts - its a bad bad deal for men. Especially if have children.

MightySizeQueen · 36-40, F

@ShadowSteel I've heard many terrible single dad stories and their divorce. Sucks for them but then again I only know one side of the story, so I can't say who's at fault.

Let's promote smart marriage instead of scaring love away....

ShadowSteel · M

@MightySizeQueen We need to get rid of the legal contract. Do not need a contract to be married or to love someone. That needs to go away.

MightySizeQueen · 36-40, F

@ShadowSteel I actually want to be legally married one day. I already did the 12 years with a guy and having his two kids.... This time around, I want marriage.

I know marriage doesn't do anyone good... Some don't believe in it..etc...

I'm going to leave this as it is.

ShadowSteel · M

@MightySizeQueen Good luck :)