I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Today I was turned 34. the only person who did NOT acknowledge my birthday was my husband.

Not surprised at all, and yet I'm still thinking about birthday sex. I have never had birthday sex. My spouse has never done anything nice for me for my birthday. He doesn't believe in celebrating birthdays, unless its someone with a spiritual importance.

Other than that, not happening.

Do others refusers do anything for them at all? acknowledge it at all?

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account123 · 80-89, M

Put a reminder on his mobile phone.
With an alert at one week and one day
Repeated yearly.
That is what I have done for my wife.
Phone Never forgets.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@account123 Its not a matter of forgetting. Its a matter of the fact that he doesn't believe in celebrating personal birthdays or making people feel special for their birthday. He only believes in doing it for important people, in religion, like martyrs.

account123 · 80-89, M

@darktippedrose

Must be an ill informed Muslim.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@account123 Oh yeah. My husband told me some stuff about marriage. But what i read in a book on marriage for Muslims was NOTHING like what he was telling me. It was insane. What I read was much nicer and more realistic.

account123 · 80-89, M

Some poorly informed Muslims do not want to celebrate Birthdays. Lucky they are a tiny minority. But you can change him through LOVE.
@darktippedrose

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@account123 oh I highly doubt that. He doesn't listen to me.

account123 · 80-89, M

@darktippedrose

The art of a good wife is to slowly train her husband into civilisation and gradually change his thinking ability.
People can change with planned manoeuvres like the politicians change opinions by repeating their views which eventually convinces many.

You can make him yours by learning some nice tongue work on his Cock when you give him the best penis in mouth time.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@account123 like 6-7 years ago, my husband said something mean to me after I gave him oral. I'm never doing it again.