I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Today I was turned 34. the only person who did NOT acknowledge my birthday was my husband.

Not surprised at all, and yet I'm still thinking about birthday sex. I have never had birthday sex. My spouse has never done anything nice for me for my birthday. He doesn't believe in celebrating birthdays, unless its someone with a spiritual importance.

Other than that, not happening.

Do others refusers do anything for them at all? acknowledge it at all?

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Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DARKTIPPEDROSE..I am sorry you didnt get that fun loving attention your heart so desires,,I do understand that because I have a oldest son who is around but the same is not that caring loving type to make you simply just smile to have a good day,, so it seems popular that little love exist today,

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@Jimgeneration60 So sorry that your son isn't affectionate or loving. That really is not a lot of fun.

Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

He been locked away from my wife out in california and paula passed away. Yes life is hard at times so that why

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

oh sorry. thats never fun. and yes, I hear you and life not being fair.

Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

your so sweet and yes today it takes a great more to be happy and to let alone recieve kisses and love to be wanted bye your mate,, we just found out my brother in law Dee has throat cancer, stage 2 so more tears

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

oh wow. thats going to be difficult.

my mom had leukemia 2x, its hard to watch?

Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

@darktippedrose yes dark rose over 12 years ago I was side bye side non stop 24 hours a day on my wife on her cervical cancer stage 4 in barnes jewish,, she passed on the 4th of july,, oh how I know these crys
so deep as rod burnt her insides. then I was a armed bulldog, I wouldnt let any body near her but her sister n husband was a dr in california

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

yeah, my mom had it once when I was 4 and another when around 8 or 9. My mom's bones would bend the needles.
I t hurt her bad. I used to love taking off her turban and kissing her bald head, even though it emberassed her.

Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

thats so sweet on you loving mom,, awwwww,, I am listing to the new you tube video of Jawga boys, chillin in the back woods,, trying to cheer up a bit
so you and me both have had hard lives,, so how do we fix your sexless marrage to happyness again dear
also baking banana bread for my first time so excited

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@Jimgeneration60 the only thing that gives me a little break from the pain is dancing.

Jimgeneration60 · 61-69, M

that sounds fun rose, so slow dancing or wild and loose on the dance floor.. I wish we had line dancing here,, I know how fun that is,, you seem sweet and kind as ever,, so hugs for talking to me today,,what else do you love to do? are you a sexy mabline products lady and to sit in your undees doing your toe nails kinda lady

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@Jimgeneration60 I study middle-eastern dancing, of all kinds. I mostly just do it at home for stress release

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darktippedrose · 36-40, F

oh wow. you weren't scared?