I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Today I was turned 34. the only person who did NOT acknowledge my birthday was my husband.

Not surprised at all, and yet I'm still thinking about birthday sex. I have never had birthday sex. My spouse has never done anything nice for me for my birthday. He doesn't believe in celebrating birthdays, unless its someone with a spiritual importance.

Other than that, not happening.

Do others refusers do anything for them at all? acknowledge it at all?

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

I do not have words to describe your husband, given all we know. Trash, shitbag, asshole, no, they are all far to mild.

You need to let go of any idea he is redeemable and figure out how to get out of there.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

@IronHamster I am trying to train myself to emotionally detach myself. But sometimes its hard. Sometimes he's the only adult voice I get all day.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

😢