I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Like we would build this super amazing friendship first then fall in love in the process. Fall in love with the cute little things we do when we arent paying attention to the surroundings. Feel how perfectly matched we are with one another in our minds and then just make it official by taking the risk and fall in love with each other, only to find out it was mutual feelings, so we are head over heels HELPLESSLY in love now.

Yet the most magnificent thing about it would be that NO ONE ELSE IS INVOLVED. No cheeky exes, no extra laying friend somewhere trying to sabotage our relationship. She would be my only friend and i would be hers too, she would be all that ive got and i would be the same for her. When (IF) we had a fight, we would figure it out on our own, sit down and talk it out and finish it off by making love on the couch :)

Relationships like that lasts for eternity.

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Yukikazuna95

I like that. I wish I had that ... Damn

Valencia · 26-30, M

Maybe one day we will have something like that. I know i wont tale anything less than this so im certain about it. Just have to trust the future for this one :)

Yukikazuna95

I mean cause my relationship currently has me unhappy ... and I'm stuck so yeah

Valencia · 26-30, M

There is nothing called stuck. Either you want it to happen or you dont. If you can see that things might get better and fix it up then keep going and try harder (BOTH OF YOU). If not then its better and healthier to end it. If you chose to end it, then know that its not the end of the road, there will be other lost souls too. You seem quite the amazing person so just chin up and take the right decision :)

Yukikazuna95

thank you so much... I do try it's just that he won't he talks but doesn't do we have a son that's scared of him cause he's gotten angry around him . I want something better, healthier...

Valencia · 26-30, M

Then i believe that you already do know the answer, youre just scared to admit it

Yukikazuna95

do I know you ...(:

Valencia · 26-30, M

I dont think so? Why ?

Yukikazuna95

idk you seem familiar... well I gotta go to bed... thank you . I hope you find that one good friend .(: feel free to message me(:

Valencia · 26-30, M

Lol its so impossible even Tom Cruise cant pull it had he been in my shoes. Goos night and same goes for you :)

Yukikazuna95

if you need someone to talk to or whateverim pretty much always available

Valencia · 26-30, M

Good then, could seriously use that nowadays :)