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Was this before or after your wife found out? Just curious. The question naturally runs in my mind, why you made the choice to betray her in the first place. Not being mean. I just wondered, because you weren't thinking of her at the time you made the choice to betray her, so are you saying you're sorry because you betrayed her or because you got caught? Or is it that you told her before you thought you would get caught? Or did you tell her in case you got caught? This is why the motive is important, and to think before we act on things and the hurt it will cause others. I'm just saying it's important to tell ourselves the truth, but not saying you're not. I'm wondering why you felt you had to make this public. Why not just write the person whom you had an affair with, in private? Why humiliate your wife with this public display? Isn't she hurt enough? I don't think you can say the other woman is a devil, because it takes two to tango. It took your consent to her advances. She's not the only guilty party.

I saw the interaction between the two of you, there were no 'Devil'. You made the choice and you enjoyed every minute! Now you want to shout I love you .. this is not a once off thing, has been happening for years!

Lmao, this doesn't sound like a real apology to me.

You still partially blame someone else.

People these days.

What with the public apology to a community, directed at your wife?
Is the point to humility you?

Please you are making a fool of me!!

It’s your own fault. And why are you SHOUTING?