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I feel badly about it, but sometimes I just need to ask my wife to stop talking.

I work 9 hours a day with 7-8 Zoom meetings a day and hundreds of email flying. I desperately need quiet sometimes. My wife doesn’t seem to take verbal cues anymore. Whole minutes will go by and I have no sea what she’s talking about.
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Somerset · 31-35, M
Alot of relationships arent really healthy, but mostly tolerable. Or it has been implemented enough times, that we need to suffer in order to be righteously happy.
Just say how you are feeling and what you need her to do so you feel better.
If that is a trigger for her, I dunno how far u want to „think about“ the condition of your life
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
@Somerset Appreciate the advice, thanks.
Latenites · F
Instead of cues just say outright you need some quiet time. There are ways to say it in a way that wont hurt her feelings. Hopefully u find a resolution
faery · F
I heard that!

Silence is golden, sometimes. We should normalize telling people we need it
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
@faery I try, but don’t want to offend!
faery · F
@Fukfacewillie Of course not, and they'll get used to the idea with repitition
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
It's cause your social batteries are drained and you just need peace and quiet. I get it.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
@Lilliesandlight Exactamundo.
Sorry that Mrs. Fukface isn’t picking up what you’re putting down. 😕
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