How long was your LDR?

Poll - Total Votes: 4

No LDR for me. I'm not that romantic

It lasted with mutual decision

I'm still on it. I don't get tired of loving from the distance.

We met, lived together/got married.

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We survived even after EP.
We exchanged traditional cards,
Gave each other birthday presents through our local post office.
He was scouting houses in Portland, Oregon, sending all of them to me.
Would leave his ex after his divorce was finalized.

I thought we can be together IRL.
But ended after 5 years. 😱.

Well, at least he said goodbye saying, I still love you but I can't continue this anymore.

I wasn't able to rebutt! Blocked on Facebook.

Still, some sweet parting words.
A bitter-sweet memory.

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Noworries72 · 51-55, M

I met a girl from Kansas… literally a whirlwind from me. Her name was Christy Dawn.

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Noworries72 how long were you romantic?

Noworries72 · 51-55, M

@1PrivateHannah it’s going back awhile now; and it was just keeping up with each other and with our families. I expect she met someone, which is good.

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Noworries72 why can't you be together?

JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M

It ended amicably as Covid began. She had moved farther away with her job. She has since married. It was a good time. No regrets

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@JohnnyNoir No regrets too. He's the nicest man I met online at that time.

Anon066 · 36-40, M

ive always had long distance transition to irl within a couple months.

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Anon066 great for you!

Offthetop · 56-60, M

All mine fizzled out when we realized that we couldn’t be together irl and ldr are so futile. I repeated this several times for periods of months in the EP days.

One in Louisiana went off to church and didn’t ever log in again. I still wonder what was in that sermon.

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Offthetop maybe the sermon was the church doesn't approve LDR ⛪🙄😅

Just kidding.

Offthetop · 56-60, M

@1PrivateHannah Jesus commands that we type with two hands.

I forget the chapter and verse of that gem.

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Offthetop I only type with my thumb using my phone. 👍😂

Lilnonames · F

The door is closed, the room is still,
and time asks room to work its skill.
It hurts to watch the story end,
to lose a lover, lose a friend.
Yet deep inside your quiet chest,
a wild force will not let you rest;
the self that bloomed before they came
is whole and bright and still the same.
You are not broken, only freed
to scatter light upon a seed.
So let the tears come as they must—
then rise up gently from the dust

1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F

@Lilnonames WOW! very touching. Thank you so much!

Lilnonames · F

@1PrivateHannah you very welcome

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