I reached out to my ex. I just could not hold it in me any longer.

I really have to marry him.
The anxiety is so severe I can't function. It's insane. I hate how culture dictates the life of people. It's not fair.

He said no, we have to move on. If it wasn't possible, it wasn't possible. You should have reached out sooner. I am regretting this so much.

I feel I am going to die any time with the anxiety.

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PHlover19701 · 56-60, M

He's your ex for a reason, right? I agree that you need to move on. Certainly isnt easy, but its for the best for you in the long run.

SW-User

You won't die
You will be in pain but the pain won't kill you . If you let it , you can learn from it and let it empower you in time

RebelRaven · 51-55, F

That is immense pain but you won’t die, feels like it for while though. 🫂🫂

SinlessOnslaught · M

Why did he say you should have reached out sooner? Wasn't it your parents who prevented you before?

turningthekeys · 31-35, F

@SinlessOnslaught we broke up over a month ago when my parents refused again, we broke up amicably.
Didn't speak for a month. So when I reached out to him again begging him to give me more time, he said he would have still tried if I had reached out sooner. His parents are now arranging someone for him. He does not want to speak to me anymore.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@turningthekeys He moved on quick. You deserve someone who will cherish you.

Mudkip · 31-35, M

Nah you'll just move on. The world keeps going and the "what ifs" shouldn't be taken seriously.

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