I think it’s finally over…

I’m an intelligent, logical woman yet I’ve allowed myself to get caught up in a fantasy for several years. So many broken promises followed by love bombing and more promises that things will change. I, of course, am part of the problem because I allowed and enabled this behavior. No more. I finally called it quits last night after several years of this. Now I just have to refrain from reaching out to him, which is incredibly difficult. My heart is broken but I deserve better, as do all of you going through something similar. We should start a support group…

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Going no contact with someone you once loved or at least cared for really deeply can be tough and take some strength but you can do it!

I hope you're letting yourself feel a little pride over setting up and maintaining a healthy boundary over someone who had hurt you. 🤗 Some cycles are so hard to break.