I think it’s finally over…

I’m an intelligent, logical woman yet I’ve allowed myself to get caught up in a fantasy for several years. So many broken promises followed by love bombing and more promises that things will change. I, of course, am part of the problem because I allowed and enabled this behavior. No more. I finally called it quits last night after several years of this. Now I just have to refrain from reaching out to him, which is incredibly difficult. My heart is broken but I deserve better, as do all of you going through something similar. We should start a support group…

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Bang5luts · M

Good for you! You're right, you do deserve better. Even if you feel lonely later or weak, you need to stay strong. People only treat us the way we let them treat us. 🤗

AlwaysAlexis · 56-60, F

@Bang5luts I say that exact same thing all of the time and yet I don’t heed my own advice… I just have to do better!

Bang5luts · M

@AlwaysAlexis same. I am horrible at taking my own advice as well. I don't believe it is because I think it's bad advice, I guess I more often than not I try to believe people can change. And they can, the problem is they don't always want to.