I think it’s finally over…

I’m an intelligent, logical woman yet I’ve allowed myself to get caught up in a fantasy for several years. So many broken promises followed by love bombing and more promises that things will change. I, of course, am part of the problem because I allowed and enabled this behavior. No more. I finally called it quits last night after several years of this. Now I just have to refrain from reaching out to him, which is incredibly difficult. My heart is broken but I deserve better, as do all of you going through something similar. We should start a support group…

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LadyGrace · 70-79

Well you're right and I'm so glad you can see this now. It is a lesson in futility. Things like these hurt because it feels personal but we have to remember that everyone has their personal preferences and it's not always us. And that's okay. Another reason these things hurt is because sometimes we're not even grieving over the person, but what we THOUGHT we had. Big difference! Stay away and get excited about what your next friend or partner will look like and think how exciting it will be when you find each other. He's looking for you, just as you are looking for him. Think on those things, and leave the past buried, where it belongs. You're not going that way!

AlwaysAlexis · 56-60, F

@LadyGrace thank you for the wise words and support!

LadyGrace · 70-79

@AlwaysAlexis You're welcome honey. 🌹🙌🤗