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maybesomeday · 26-30, F
How long is the distance? You've never met, not even once in five years?
I don't think you should be holding on tightly until "God" decides to bring you two together, I think you two need to seriously start taking steps in closing the distance or in the very least doing visits, or you'll be stuck in a relationship that technically isn't one if you've not even been in each others presence.
Ultimately, LDR's fail if there is no goal to have regular visits, or close the distance. Not trying to be mean, just honest. I was in an LDR and have now closed the distance, but I know that if we hadn't of worked hard to close that distance, things would have deteriorated and time, energy and emotions would have been wasted.
I don't think you should be holding on tightly until "God" decides to bring you two together, I think you two need to seriously start taking steps in closing the distance or in the very least doing visits, or you'll be stuck in a relationship that technically isn't one if you've not even been in each others presence.
Ultimately, LDR's fail if there is no goal to have regular visits, or close the distance. Not trying to be mean, just honest. I was in an LDR and have now closed the distance, but I know that if we hadn't of worked hard to close that distance, things would have deteriorated and time, energy and emotions would have been wasted.
roseebee · 31-35, F
@maybesomeday its tough, and i just wished we had it easy just like you did. We are currently working on meeting up, once everything is settled down. We are dealing with some serious medical conditions so we have to carefully plan on everything. Thanks for dropping by my post, I do appreciate your insights! Pray for us though! How was the feeling of finally meeting the love of your life for the first time? :)
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Tukudo · 41-45, M
When will you make it to real?🙂
BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
Best of luck !!