My husband always SAYS "Hey Jasper whatcha doing baby?" to our cat!! He never talks to me like that!

No apostrophe in the word "says". The word "to" should not have a capital "T" either. As for the silly word "whatcha", if your husband wants to talk like that it's up to him.

Cuz your name isn't Jasper.

That's my guess.

Copy your cat, watch and learn.
First thing, don't give him any attention unless it's food time lol

what's he say to you? hey cat

Maybe he would if you behaved like the cat sometimes... ;)

Have you tried rubbing up against his leg and purring?

Mem