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My guy friend seems so happy with the girl he’s seeing so why am I getting jealous?

My guy friend a couple months ago admitted he STILL likes me after so many years and he was in LOVE with me but I kept telling him I didn’t like him like that.
After my sister knocked some sense into me that my guy friend has ALWAYS be the one for me bur I kept complaining about no great guys liking me, I’m always chasing after jerks. I was too blind to realize that the man I’ve been looking for has be right in front of me and I was too busy paying attention to guys out of my league and didn’t care about me. My guy friend never abandoned me at prom, he was there when my crush ditched me. He asked me to every dance, to be his valentine, and out but I shut him down several times. I got angry when he had a girlfriend. If I don’t see his worth, another woman will and go talk to him or see him but it was up to me.
So I ended up calling him and asked to hang out for a weekend and not as friends this time.
He said he’s glad I came to my senses but it was too late, he moved on and found someone that appreciates and notices him for him.
He’s been seeing her for a month and he seems so happy. I am very happy for me and so glad he moved but I’m starting to feel….envious and I hate to say this but I’m feeling………jealous. I try to fight it but I keep thinking about him A LOT. I didn’t tell my best friend or his best friend this.
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Captain · 61-69, MNew
There's always another bus coming, maybe nothing for a long time then 2 or 3 at once but there's always someone else coming along. Just catch th ebus next time (youcan always get off at the next stop if it was a mistake).
tiltawhirl · 36-40, F
Move on with your life and eventually he may be available again. That’s all you can really do.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
Was he really the one for you though? You shouldn't have to be convinced if it was really true. It sounds more like you want something because you cant have it. Human brains are weird like that.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Kuronekko I guess you have a point. If I dated him, I wouldn’t be happy.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
You're getting what you deserve.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl I'm not trying to be. You don't like him,you just don't like that your fan boy has moved onto someone who was able to see his worth.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@PinkMoon We’ll it’s my sister fault that my heart is pounding for him and me starting to fall for him. She shouldn’t have convinced me to go for him.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl You can't use your sister as a scapegoat,you're way too smart for that. You have your own independent thoughts,emotions,hopes,dreams and life. You are in control of the direction you take. You decide what you will do and the best thing now is to learn from this. You're doing a great job of identifying your mistake in prioritising superficial things over someone who is genuine and care about you. That's a lesson that can keep you from a lot of pain in the future if you choose to internalise it.

As far as your feelings go they'll fade away. The reality is as good a person as he is you just weren't compatible. If you were it would've worked.
You snooze, you lose. He's moved on. Move on.

 
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