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How to deal with insecurities about my looks.

I am insecure about my height, skin/hair issues ( skin spots, pimples, dark patches, stretch marks, cellulite on my butt and thighs and also getting few white hairs on my head ), bones/teeth ( they are thin and weak). All these issues i got because i didn't eat well.... i am underweight right now, i lived by drinking tea/coffee when i was depressed and didn't eat well. They might reduce if i start taking care of myself.... but i believe not fully.
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
We tend to think the worst of ourselves
I remember seeing you in your profile pic in the past if I’m not mistaken and you were very pretty
Don’t compare yourself to others
Everyone likes different things and I’m sure you have plenty that a lot of people would gush over
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Liking your face and embracing your unique features is a great start

So much of beauty and attractiveness is all so subjective
With height there are plenty of people attracted to tall and so many attracted to shorter women. I’m not sure what your height is but any height there is an audience for
Spots and white hair and stuff that can be looked at as blemishes can be looked at as distinguishing features that can be very attractive

I’m sure you are beautiful inside and out and just need to find the person who can appreciate it
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@JRVanguard Thanks for ur support and prespective! Some men might not find all those that big deal.... maybe i am being very harsh on myself..
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sahi81
Anytime, thank you for listening🤗
Different strokes for different folks we say here
Good luck 🤗
Bowenw · 61-69, M
We are all our own worst critics. You are probably attractive and have to accept that for yourself. Try to remember that many people deal with the same insecurities.
To be honest it's very hard.

Somewhere I read something like , "Just focus on the things you can change. If there are things you can't change, there's no point in thinking about it".
Beauty lies within.

I was in my late thirties before I finally stopped criticizing my looks. I am overweight, my hair is thin, my skin is freckled, my boobs are average, and my feet are long. My flaws are what make me uniquely beautiful. 😊
Elisbch · M
@DreamyCrush

Lol.. 😊

Sylphrena · 31-35
Detach your self worth from your appearance. It's easier said than done, but there is so much more to you than how you look.
AnotherWeirdo · 41-45, M
Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It may be a corny cliche but it's also 100% true.

Or, phrased another way, just remember "I'm someone's fetish!"
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Look into the mirror and find your good qualities. Remember that to some men you are just a woman but to others you may find that perfect man who adores you and loves the way you look
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Build on your strengths , improve what you don’t like as long as it isn’t compromising your health in the long run and put in the effort to make yourself attractive to you when you look in the mirror.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Heavenlywarrior i don't know what is pretty about me... i am straight...
smiler2012 · 61-69
@sahi81 😞i am sorry you actually feel this way you look is this you yourself or the cruel remarks of others
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@smiler2012 others mostly, sometimes me too.
Freetime · 56-60, M
Don't compare yourself to others.
Honestly, the only way is to simply stop being insecure about your looks
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Justafantasy i believe it's useless to feel insecure... since every person have different preferences. I have seen guys give attention to girls i didn't find pretty... or is it just about they have body parts, idk 😅 Men seem to even give attention to women whom i thought were ugly. Maybe to those men they were attractive...
@sahi81 different people find different things attractive. I've seen girls with guys that I thought totally didn't suit them. I've got preferences, physically nothing is set in stone
Elisbch · M
@sahi81

Maybe it was the girl's personality or maybe the guy likes how that girl treats him. For me, these are very important qualities for a female to have. 🙂
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Do like I do. Never look in a mirror. And lie a lot.
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