Caught Red Handed

I've officially decided to stop fighting for my marriage.

Today, I found out he purchased lingerie and had it shipped to someone who lives in the area he works.

I may not be the most amazing woman on the planet, but damn, I like to think I had a lot to give... now he throws away 5 years together and his kids and our son will suffer.

People say that cheaters cheat because they're not happy in their relationship. I think they cheat because they're not happy in themselves...

So I'm done. And it hurts, I feel parts of me shattering that I managed to fix... it's not right....

But I can't hold on to someone who wants a side piece...

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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

It’s important to model for your children ( as well as necessary for your own good mental health) the standards of treatment they should later give & expect on relationships. I know it’s not something people who feel stuck want to think about but the main relationship that can have a big impact on children is that of their parents. I’m very sorry you two couldn’t work things out. I hope for better days for all of you.