I Hate Cheaters

As far back as I can remember I have had a disdain for cheaters because I saw too many victims of it...but then it happened to me. My first marriage was a fiasco. My then wife had a serious problem with her legs, she couldn't keep them together. I treated her like a queen, I was a good provider, and I never took her for granted. But she evidently thought there weren't enough men in the marriage. The saddest part is that I almost never was able to convince her in the beginning that I could be trusted and that I'd never cheat on her. I've never believed in cheating, I've never done that and I never will. It was frustrating but we got past that fear of hers and eventually married. I look back on it now and realize it should've never happened, because her "fears" were just a ruse for what was actually on her mind and in her heart. For years afterward I didn't trust any woman who expressed a fear that I might cheat on her or worse, made "threats" as to what would happen if I ever did. Especially if these "concerns were constantly repeated, Cheaters don't just break hearts, they create damage that is widespread. I don't know if they just don't realize that or they just don't care. There are many different reasons why people cheat and some reasons are more understandable than others, but to me ALL cheating is wrong and it's something I want no part of.